What makes a good placement call?

We're writing down what a good placement call actually looks like, and your answers are what it gets built from. There are no right answers — write as much or as little as you like, and skip anything that doesn't fit.

Part 1

Your own calls

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Think of the best call you've had in the last month or so. What happened on it?As much detail as you can remember — what you said, what they said, where it turned.
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Now think of one that didn't work. Where did it start to go wrong?
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At what point in a call do you usually know whether it's going to come off?

Part 2

Watching someone else

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You're sitting in on a new starter's call. What would make you wince?List as many as come to mind — small things count.
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What does someone else on the team do that you've started doing yourself?
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What do you do on calls that you don't think is written down anywhere?
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If you could teach a new starter one thing to make their calls better, what would it be?

Part 3

The hard moments

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The client says £60–£80 is too expensive. What do you say — and what would you never say?
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“How do you know who's right for me?” What do you say?
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They tried therapy before and it didn't work. What do you do with that?
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They're clearly hesitant and won't commit to anything. What do you do?
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Someone goes quiet, or says they'll “have a think about it”. What's usually actually going on, and what do you do?

Part 4

Same call, same verdict?

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Three short exchanges below. For each one: was that good, ok, or bad — and why?Trust your gut. Where two of us disagree about the same exchange is the most useful thing you can tell us.
Exchange A
Client…it's been since my mum died last year, really. I haven't been sleeping, and I've been signed off work for a few weeks now.
AgentOk, thank you. And did you have a certain budget you were hoping to stick to per session?
GoodOkBad
Exchange B
Client£70 a session? That's… a lot, if I'm honest.
AgentI completely understand, it is a lot of money. We do have a few therapists at the lower end, around £60 — I could look at those for you instead if that helps?
GoodOkBad
Exchange C
ClientThat does sound good, actually. What sort of times does she have?
AgentShe's got fairly good availability. And what's really lovely about her approach is she does a lot of work around self-compassion, which given everything you've said I think would be really valuable — she's also trained in EMDR, which is very effective for trauma…
GoodOkBad

Part 5

What we're scoring at the moment

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Here's what we currently look at on a call. For each one, does it matter a lot, matter a bit, or is it not really part of the job?
Opening & purposeA lotA bitNot really
Framing the roadmapA lotA bitNot really
Invitation & listeningA lotA bitNot really
Empathy before logisticsA lotA bitNot really
Practical discoveryA lotA bitNot really
The match pitchA lotA bitNot really
Handling hesitationA lotA bitNot really
Payment & wrap-upA lotA bitNot really
Warmth & rapportA lotA bitNot really
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What's missing from that list?
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Which two of those matter most?
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Is there anything on that list you'd be uncomfortable having one of your own calls scored on? Why?
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When would you want to see feedback on your own calls?After every call · weekly · only when something stands out · not at all — and why.
After every callWeeklyOnly when something stands outNot at all